Love?

LOVE!!!

“Love” Have you ever fall in love, its stupid na? Its make’s you vulnerable and its complicated too. You make barriers, put a love proof cover and many stupid things but one-day one stupid person, who have no difference from any other stupid, enters in your life. She does stupid things that you already seen but it make you to smile. I mean you starts laughing on those things on what you have never ever even smiled. Da aa. She made you feel like you are the most important person in your group. She makes you sick (you starts bothering, on those things you never even observed) from inside; you start taking care of her needs and forget everything about your self. You’re family, your friends, your hairstyle, your behaviour; I mean everything changed suddenly from that time of life when she smiled on you.

Love, which has no meaning, colour, status, boundaries, cast or any religion, is a gift for living being by almighty but humans has changed everything for their greed. At least 10 people end their lives every day in India after being let down by their lovers. A total of 3774 people committed suicide in 2008 for failing in love. Here also female left men behind 1912 women compared to 1862 males. We think that we are in love but can anyone explain me, what exactly love means? I think if we analyse lover’s life closely (specially the time when they fall in Love) we can find it that the thing so called love is just a need. Excess of need is really called love.

As per NCRB (National Crime Records Bureau) records 2008, reasons behind suicides are Bankruptcy or Sudden change in Economic Status 2.4%, Poverty 2.4%, Dowry Dispute2.4%, Drug Abuse 2.2% and Love Affairs 3.0% and remaining. Not only this, number of rapes 21467, sexual harassments 12214, kidnapping and abduction of women and girls 22939 and the list can goes on and on…. Just because of police fear, harassment to the family of the victims, lack of awareness and most of all stupid and f**king, so called honour, many cases not even registered.

As we can see that in life, sex is a need and when need became hunger (lust) then a person falls in love. Can anyone of so called lovers stay away from her/his partner or can live life without bed satisfaction (sex)?


After all this, I know some of us still believe that there is such thing as love then I just want to say that he or she is correct ;) there is love in between parents and their children’s, brother/s and his sister/s. But we, humans are the worse then anything in this world. People murders their owns, rapes their loved ones, back stepped those who trust us, leave those who needs us and lie’s to those who live for us. Sometimes money, sometimes lust, sometimes just for the sake of our life and many times just for success in life, should we still call that we are the most classy and the most gifted creation of god?

"Everyday is a new day", a good quote with many meanings in it. Some take it as live life as every day is a new day, some take it as leave the failure or victory, which is past and start to a new day to win this complicated world, few take it as a quote only but i think it say's that "One should live life, one day at a time". Which means there is no yesterday, there is no tomorrow only one thing is there Today, so live it like, it is your last day on earth.

From corruption for money, prayers of God to get some more blessings etc-etc are the things that are done for a safe today and safer tomorrow. People are killing even their loved ones for money. Money the thing that man created to use it as token of exchange and believe but now money is driving our life, our believe, and our love. It doesn't mean that one should leave prayers, stop loving or believe on god and start wasting its savings. It means no one can take its money to heaven or hell, whatsoever. We should live a luxuries life but not on account of others feeling or life. Because there is another life after death," AS THEY SAY SO" ;)

The only thing that will work 'up there' (God's world) is blessings and believe. So never cry for the things you lost, never make anyone to hate you, never hurt the people who loves you and the most of all, never do the things, your heart denies or regret for. Life is a complicated thing, many times we do the things that our soul denies for, but if we did it by mistake then don't feel shy/scare to correct it or to apologies. That makes you a good human being and you will feel good from inside(heart). This is the act that will satisfy you. 'Satisfaction' A mantra for SUCCESS in life and complete PEACE of mind.

A word "Per+fact", a word which is not even perfact in itself then think how human being can be perfact? every thing has two sides, "Ying and Yeng" as per Chinese mythology/believe, but its not only chinese believe, its universal believe/truth. So do we are, no one in this world is completely good or bad that's make us human. So think, why we are trying to became perfact? All we can do is to live our life with peace and happiness and it is possible only when we take "One dat at a time".